Life in Spain: The joys, the quirks and the culture shock
Expats share the most surprising aspects of living in Spain, from the warmth of its people to the unexpected daily challenges.
Moving to Spain is an adventure filled with fascinating discoveries and a few cultural surprises. Expats quickly learn that life here operates at its own rhythm, with charming traditions, unique habits and a deep-rooted sense of community. Here are some of the most surprising aspects of Spanish life, as shared by those who have made the move.
The elderly are everywhere – and that’s a good thing
One of the most endearing aspects of Spanish culture is the active involvement of older generations in everyday activities. Whether it’s a group of pensioners laughing in the plaza or grandparents accompanied by their teenage grandchildren, Spain integrates its elderly into society – a clear contrast with some cultures where the elderly are less visible in daily settings.
"In my home country, older people tend to stay indoors more, but here they’re out and about, chatting in cafés and enjoying life," says Rebecca, a British expat living in Madrid.
Doting dads
Many newcomers are pleasantly surprised by the hands-on approach Spanish dads take with their children. Seeing dads strolling with prams, pushing swings in the park or picking up their kids from school, in the absence of mothers is a common and heart-warming sight, reflecting a deep-seated cultural norm of paternal involvement.
"Back home, I’d mostly see mums doing these things, but here, dads are just as involved," shares Tom, an expat father in Valencia. "It’s really refreshing to see."
The genius of ‘Persianas’
Spain’s love of exterior shutters, known as persianas, is something many foreigners quickly come to appreciate and wonder why they're not more widespread elsewhere. These sturdy blinds keep out the intense summer heat and allow for total darkness at any time of day—perfect for a siesta.
"I don’t understand why every country doesn’t have these," says Sophie, an expat from London. "I sleep so much better here!"
Life happens late
Spain’s daily schedule can take some getting used to. Dinner at 10pm, children playing in plazas well past midnight and social gatherings often start when others might be heading to bed. This nocturnal lifestyle underscores the country's emphasis on socialising and community.
"I still can’t get over seeing toddlers wide awake at 11pm," laughs James, an expat in Barcelona. "But now I’ve embraced the late-night culture—it’s all about enjoying life!"
Thin walls, Loud neighbours
One common gripe among expats is the apparent lack of sound insulation in many Spanish buildings. Hearing neighbours' conversations, footsteps or even their television shows becomes part of daily life.
"Let’s just say I know far too much about my neighbours’ personal lives," jokes Emma, who lives in a city flat in Seville.
Navigating the sidewalk shuffle
Walking down a Spanish street can feel like an obstacle course. It requires patience and agility. Locals have a knack for occupying entire pavements, often stopping abruptly for a chat, making it a challenge for those in a hurry. This leisurely approach to walking reflects the country's unhurried lifestyle.
"I used to think British people were bad at moving out of the way, but here, it’s on another level!" says David, an expat in Madrid.
Surprisingly good coffee - even in the most basic bars
Coffee culture in Spain is strong, and it elicits mixed reviews from expats. Some praise its consistently good quality, even in the most unassuming bars, while others, especially those from neighbouring countries like Portugal, find it lacking. Regardless, coffee remains a central part of Spanish social life.
"It’s decent, but as a Portuguese person, I have to say our coffee is better," admits Ana, who moved to Spain last year.
Embracing the unexpected
Living in Spain is full of wonderful surprises, small challenges and cultural quirks. While adjusting to late nights, chatty neighbours and relaxed attitudes towards punctuality can take time, most expats agree that the warmth, community spirit and alegría de vivir (joy of living) make it all worthwhile.
"Spain just has this incredible energy. Once you adapt, you never want to leave," says Mark, who planned to stay for a year but is now in his tenth.
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